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The 7 Things We Mistake To Be Love - Noah Elkrief

The 7 Things We Mistake To Be Love - Noah Elkrief

In this blog post, i'd like to talk about the 7 things which we mistake to be love. We were all taught numerous different notions of what love is, but some of those things aren't actually love at all. Whenever we think we're loving someone, but we are not really loving them, then we are not going to believe that love. The fulfillment we're searching for in life truly comes from giving love, and not from getting love. The content in this post is intended to assist make you aware of when you're mistaking your ideas, words, actions, and emotions to be love since this will give you an opportunity to come back to love.

Love is totally unconditional - Our love cannot be affected or lost based on terms and actions. Love is totally selfless - Love does not need or need anything in return. Why are we seeking this? Why do we constantly look for a partner or someone to love us? Really, what we would like above all is to feel peaceful, happy, and entire. Fundamentally, we create a vision of a perfect future where we're loved and happy, and after that we look for somebody to fill the open position of the one who'll love us. If we're searching for somebody who we may used to make us happy, then whenever we find someone to love us, we're setting our-self up to be utilizing them to make us happy.

What we're missing here's that if we truly love someone for whom they're, then we would not try to change them. We frequently confuse positive thoughts about someone to be love. Even when you suspect your partner is the most fantastic, good, and beautiful person, that's not love. A lot of us innocently mistake pleasure to be love. These feelings are actually created by thoughts such as I finally found someone who will make me happy", We are going to have such a wonderful life together", He loves me and I love him", I can stop looking for a partner and worrying about whether I will never find one.

Most people have been taught that love means doing things for the partner, or simply put, sacrificing for your partner. A lot of times, we tend to think of things like you loved me, you would cook for me, clean the room, take the kids to school more, sacrifice for me, buy me more gifts, compliment me etc. Since we love them, we do not view it as a compromise, but as a pleasure. Other times, we may love how we feel about someone since they accompany us, we might love it because we've positive thoughts about them, we might love it since it distracts us from our pessimistic thoughts, maybe they purchase us stuff, maybe they agree with us, or possibly it's just a lot of fun.

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